TL;DR
- Your baby is about 46.2 cm long — roughly the size of a honeydew melon
- Your baby's kidneys are fully developed and processing about a pint of amniotic fluid daily
- You're likely dealing with pelvic pressure, Braxton Hicks, and the nesting instinct
- Finalize your birth plan and share it with your care team
Your Baby This Week
Your baby's kidneys are now fully developed — a quiet but significant milestone. They're processing about a pint of amniotic fluid each day, filtering it and excreting it as urine back into the amniotic sac. This cycle is essential for maintaining the right amount of amniotic fluid and for practicing the waste-processing your baby's kidneys will handle independently after birth.
At 46.2 cm and about 5.3 pounds, your baby is running out of room. The amniotic fluid that once gave them a spacious swimming pool has decreased, and your baby's body is curled up tightly in the fetal position. Despite the tight quarters, you should still feel regular movement — it just feels different from those big kicks earlier on.
Your baby's liver is functional and can process some waste products. Their brain continues its remarkable growth — it now weighs about two-thirds of what it will weigh at birth. The connections between neurons are multiplying rapidly, and your baby's nervous system is increasingly sophisticated.
Most babies have settled into a head-down position by now, though some are still figuring it out. If your baby is breech (feet or bottom down), your provider may start discussing options — many babies still flip on their own in the coming weeks, but there are also techniques that can help encourage the right positioning.
Your Body This Week
The nesting instinct may be hitting hard right about now. That sudden, overwhelming urge to organize the nursery closet, deep clean the kitchen, and wash every piece of baby clothing might seem irrational — but it's a real, hormonally-driven phenomenon. Channel it productively, but don't overdo it. Your body needs rest more than your closets need color-coding.
Pelvic pressure is likely intensifying as your baby drops lower. You might feel heaviness in your pelvis, increased pressure on your bladder, and a general sensation that your baby might just fall out (they won't). This is called lightening, and while it can make walking uncomfortable, it often provides some welcome relief from the rib and diaphragm pressure you've been dealing with.
Braxton Hicks contractions may be becoming more frequent and more noticeable. Some people describe them as their belly getting very hard for 30 seconds to a minute, then relaxing. They shouldn't be painful or regular — if they are, call your provider.
Fatigue is at an all-time high. Between the physical demands of carrying a nearly full-term baby, interrupted sleep, and the mental energy of preparing for a life-changing event, you're running on fumes. Give yourself grace. The laundry can wait. The emails can wait. Rest when you can.
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Common Questions at Week 35
What should be in my birth plan?
A birth plan is a way to communicate your preferences to your care team. Consider including: your preferences for pain management, who you want in the room, your feelings about fetal monitoring, whether you want to delay cord clamping, your plans for skin-to-skin contact immediately after birth, and your feeding preferences (breast, bottle, or combination). Keep it to one page, discuss it with your provider, and remember that flexibility is key — births rarely go exactly according to plan, and that's okay.
Is my baby big enough if born now?
At 35 weeks, your baby is well-developed. While they would likely need some time in the NICU for monitoring, feeding support, and temperature regulation, babies born at 35 weeks generally do very well. Their lungs have produced significant surfactant, and most major organ systems are functional. That said, every additional week in the womb helps — especially for brain development and fat accumulation.
Why do I suddenly feel like I can breathe better?
If your baby has dropped lower into your pelvis (lightening), the pressure on your diaphragm has decreased, giving your lungs more room to expand. This is great for breathing but less great for your bladder, which is now bearing the brunt of your baby's position. It's a trade-off, but most people welcome the ability to take a full breath again.
This Week's Tip
Finalize your birth plan and share it with your care team. Having a written birth plan isn't about controlling every aspect of your delivery — it's about making sure your voice is heard during one of the most important experiences of your life. Review it with your partner, discuss it with your provider at your next appointment, and bring copies to the hospital. Your nurses will appreciate knowing your preferences, and you'll feel more confident knowing you've communicated what matters to you.
Sources
- American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) — Third Trimester
- Mayo Clinic — Fetal Development: The Third Trimester